I'm kind of ________, it's time for a new church

Every now and then, we get a guest form from someone who is a member of another local church.  I usually email guests, but if someone is a member of another local church, I respond differently.  I thank them for coming and being a guest with us, and wish them well as they return to their church, hoping that we have in some way, been used of God to help them be energized and inspired to carry on their valuable and important place in their church family.

Here's the reality...

Jesus' church, THE church, doesn't grow by people running from one church to the next.  It grows by people who didn't know Him being introduced to Him by caring friends and neighbors and co-workers who love them enough to live Jesus in front of them.

Another truth is true as well...
His children don't grow by using cosmetic factors to attempt to solve problems that exist within.  Most of the time, blaming external preferences for issues that exist internally, only mask the issue and delay healing.

From time to time, people leave one local church for another local church.  Sometimes, it's a good reason, but a lot of the time, it's not.  When I get that guest form above, could God be sending help to accomplish our mission or bringing someone to the next step in their journey?  Could God give the "holy transfer" to someone from our church to go somewhere else?  Of course...but it needs to be obedience, not avoidance.

If you are thinking about leaving your church, read this article below and if one of these reasons is the reason that you are considering a new place, rethink and examine yourself.  If you don't, you might end up finding the same problems at the new place, because you brought them with you.

5 Really Bad Reasons To Leave Your Church

Verses from the talk on "Words"

At Church at the Park today, we talked about the words we use, their importance in our lives and what the Bible has to say about them.

Facts about words
20,000 words a day spoken for the average woman
7,000 words a day spoken for the average man 

When you think about the words you read , the words you hear, words we think, words we hear, and you realize that words are a huge part of our lives.

Words are powerful.

Good ones are valuable.

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.
Proverbs 25:11 ESV

They can start or stop a fight.

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 15:1 ESV

They can bring healing or hurt.

There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Proverbs 12:18 ESV

They have the power of death or life.

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
Proverbs 18:21 ESV

Words tell who you are.

But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person.
Matthew 15:18 ESV

God cares about what you say.

He commands what words we are to use.

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 
Ephesians? ?4?:?29? (ESV)

He has a standard for our words.

And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Colossians? ?3?:?17? (ESV)

Every word you say should fit under the umbrella of representing Christ and should be a testament to thanking God for who He is in your life.

God created words for us to use to tell about Him.  Your words are what you are to use to share truth of Christ with others.

He holds us accountable for our words.

I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak,
Matthew 12:36 ESV

It's not just the words that you say, but other words as well.

The words you read...
The words you think...
The words you write...
The words you post...
The words you cheer...

The words you give value to that others say...

What kind of words should we say?

THINK - 5 questions to evaluate the next words I am about to say.

True - Will it be the truth? - Psalm 5:6, Ephesians 4:15, Proverbs 12:19

Helpful - Will it be helpful? - Phil 2:3-4 
Inspiring - Will it inspire them to be better? - Hebrews 10:24-25

Necessary - Will it be worth being said? - Proverbs 10:19
Kind - Will it be kind?  - Ephesians 4:32

Kind is not just smoothing things over and avoiding conflict...it's saying the truth in a kind manner.

If it doesn't pass all of these questions, then don't say it.
If the message is important enough to be said, then find a way to say it that it fits all of these categories.

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.
Psalm 19:14 ESV

Scripture list from "Triumph of the Cross" message last week

Here's the Scripture that I went through on Sunday that you might have missed.

13 When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins,

14 having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross.

15 And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.

Colossians 2:13-15 (NIV)

20 Therefore no one will be declared righteous in God’s sight by the works of the law; rather, through the law we become conscious of our sin.

Romans 3:20 (NIV)

7 What shall we say, then? Is the law sinful? Certainly not! Nevertheless, I would not have known what sin was had it not been for the law. For I would not have known what coveting really was if the law had not said, "You shall not covet."
Romans 7:7 (NIV)

2 But your iniquities have separated you from your God;
your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear.
Isaiah 59:2 (NIV)

20 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.
James 1:20 (NIV)

11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

23 For the wages of sin is death,A)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-28092A">  but the gift of God is eternal lifeB)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-28092B">  ina]">  Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 6:23 (NIV)

9 In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.
Proverbs 16:9 (NIV)

2…For the worshipers would have been cleansed once for all, and would no longer have felt guilty for their sins.

3 But those sacrifices are an annual reminder of sins.

4 It is impossible for the blood of bulls and goats to take away sins.

Hebrews 10:2-4 (NIV)

Jesus as the one sacrifice for all sins...

12  But when this priest had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God,
Hebrews 10:12 (NIV)

12  Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all people, because all sinned--
Romans 5:12 (NIV)

Who are you bringing?

This time of year is awesome, especially in Florida! Sports leagues are in swing, March Madness watch parties are coming to a head. We are out and about gearing up for all the spring things. This weekend, we'll gather together to celebrate the Triumph of Christ's resurrection. The reality is that EVERYONE wants to experience winning in their life, but most people are still trying to figure out what that really looks like. Success in life is one of the greatest gifts that Jesus gives us.

Eight out of every ten people will accept an invitation to church on Easter. As you are out watching the Final Four or at a school award ceremony or at a company barbecue, remember that people are searching for what Jesus can give them and extend an invitation to them to come with you this weekend to our service at 11am at The Mission.

We'll be offering free family pics before the service starting at 10:30am and having an Easter Egg hunt for the kids after the service. We'll be sharing what the Triumph of Christ's Resurrection means for us every day...I guarantee you don't want to miss it.

Scripture list from "Becoming" message

I know a lot of the time that I mention Scripture throughout the message and sometimes people remind me that I move fast through some of the auxiliary verses and they would like to know them.  So, I've been trying to catalogue the verses in my blog (when I remember, which isn't every week-- I'll try to do better). 

Here is the complete list of verses that I mentioned in the sermon on Sunday in order of mention.

Don’t you realize that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize? So run to win! All athletes are disciplined in their training. They do it to win a prize that will fade away, but we do it for an eternal prize. So I run with purpose in every step. I am not just shadowboxing.
1 Corinthians 9:24-26 NLT

Where there is no message from God, the people don't control themselves. But blessed are those who obey the law.
Proverbs 29:18 NIRV

19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
Matthew 28:19-20

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Psalm 119:105 ESV

12 For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.
Hebrews 4:12 (NIV)

Pray without ceasing.
1 Thess. 5:17

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord's people.
Ephesians 6:18

do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
Philippians 4:6 (ESV)

So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13 (ESV)

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.
Genesis 1:27 (ESV)

Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
1 John 4:8 ESV

12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.
John 15:12 (NIV)

We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters.
1 John 3:16 NLT

Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
1 John 4:7 NIV

Brothers and sisters, God has shown you his mercy. So I am asking you to offer up your bodies to him while you are still alive. Your bodies are a holy sacrifice that is pleasing to God. When you offer your bodies to God, you are worshiping him.
Romans 12:1 NIRV

25 Let us not give up meeting together. Some are in the habit of doing this. Instead, let us cheer each other up with words of hope. Let us do it all the more as you see the day coming when Christ will return.
Hebrews 10:25 NIRV

For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”
Luke 19:10 NIV

Jesus gave them this answer: "Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.
John 5:19 NIV

11 So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?
Luke 16:11 NIV

“But woe to you Pharisees! For   you tithe mint and rue and every herb, and neglect   justice and   the love of God.   These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others.
Luke 11:42 ESV

I have been young, and now am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken or his children begging for bread.  He is ever lending generously, and his children become a blessing.
Psalm 37:25-26 ESV

"And the King will say, 'I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!'
Matthew 25:40 NIV

I think that's all of them.  I'm doing this on my phone so if there is a typo, let me know, because it wasn't intentional. 

Have a great week and keep on trending!

A few thoughts about prayer

Upon reflecting on a story from the 1 Kings 18, God showed me some lessons about prayer.  You may know the story, it's the story about Elijah and his standoff with the prophets of Baal and Asherah, two gods that the people of Israel were worshiping instead of God.  You can read about it here.

Quick synopsis:  King Ahab and his piece of work Queen Jezebel are leading the people away from God and the people were kind of flip-flopping back and forth between worshiping Baal & Asherah and then worshiping God.  They have persecuted and killed all the prophets of God except Elijah, and Elijah, who is now the last prophet alive, comes out of hiding and just shows up right in the middle of God and everyone in Jerusalem (when he does Ahab calls him the "trouble maker of Israel").  Elijah sets up this showdown on Mount Carmel with the prophets of Baal and Asherah to end the doubt about who should be worshiped.

There's 850 prophets on one side and then there's Elijah on the other.  The contest:  Set up an altar with a sacrifice on it and see which God can bring fire down to burn it up.

The 850 prophets of Baal and Aherah go all day.  They are dancing around, cutting themselves and calling out to their gods.  Elijah starts talking trash to them about noon...love that...nothing happens.  About the time of the evening sacrifice, Elijah goes "that's enough" and he sets up his altar with the bull on it and digs a trench around it.  He has people take 8 giant water jars and dump them on his sacrifice, so that it drenches the altar and fills the trench around the altar with water.

Elijah prays:

...“O Lord, God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, prove today that you are God in Israel and that I am your servant. Prove that I have done all this at your command. 37 O Lord, answer me! Answer me so these people will know that you, O Lord, are God and that you have brought them back to yourself.”


38 Immediately the fire of the Lord flashed down from heaven and burned up the young bull, the wood, the stones, and the dust. It even licked up all the water in the trench! 39 And when all the people saw it, they fell face down on the ground and cried out, “The Lord—he is God! Yes, the Lord is God!”

Here are some things about prayer that I learned from this passage.

1)  Pray big.  Elijah prayed big, this wasn't small...he really laid himself out there.  A great book that unpacks this idea is The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson.

2)  Pray specific.  Don't pray nebulous prayers.  Make them specific, don't just always pray in a way that is not measurable.

3)  Pray to leave no doubt.  Too often we just pray about things that would happen anyway...that's not bad, but our prayers don't need to be limited to that.  The reason we don't see God do things that only God can do more, is because we don't pray for things to happen that only God could do.  Pray in such a way that you leave no doubt who did it...this was a moment for Elijah, it was God doing it or nobody...leave no doubt.

3)  Pray for the glory of God.  That was Elijah's prayer, that God would show Himself to be who He is, that God show His glory, which is the evidence that God is working and is who He says He is.  Do you just pray for things that would make your life easier, get you something cool or do you pray purposefully for ways for God to glorify Himself?  Do you pray for what would be most in line with God's mission or yours?

I tell the story of how Bay West got land all the time, because it's a meaningful story that only God could have done.  Scott and I were looking with Jeff Robison and his co-worker, Brandon...after looking we had lunch at Sonny's BBQ, and when we left, we drove off saying, "Well that's great and all, but we don't have any money to buy it."  We delayed staff meeting because of the task, and when we got there, we told everyone that we had found a place, but we didn't have any money.  Our Minister of Administration pipes up with "Well, you aren't gonna believe this, but..." and he proceeds to tell us that he just finished lunch with a guy who, completely unprompted, asked what we were doing for the Bay West campus to get them land to build and that he wanted to buy us some land, if that was cool.  Zero in here...we weren't telling everyone we were even looking...our Administrator didn't even know we were looking, yet at the exact moment we were looking in faith, God had already prepared the answer.

It gets even better, because the land we were looking at was a great price, but in the process, we got outbid...I was crushed, because I was SURE that was what God had for us, because even the location was right in the middle of a map we'd plotted with the addresses of our attenders...but it wasn't.  I thought the story was over, but what ended up happening was that God's plan was for us to buy the land immediately next door...which was TWICE THE SIZE of the original plot...and THAT story is still being written and it is my hope that parts of the story will be us being the building on Easter 2016 with 800 disciple makers ready on our way with the rest of the body of Christ in Palm Bay to take the city and that it would be known as a "place where God moves" when we are done....every night, that's my prayer...and that this would not be the end of the story.

I say that to say this...Degree of difficulty is irrelevant.  God is not bound by amount of ability or resource, so for God, there is no challenge to the task, whatever it is, there is only purpose for doing it, so pray for His glory...He tends to show up, and most of the time, it's bigger and better than you thought.

4)  Be faithful to tell the story.  

I say this for two reasons...one, because I'm keeping my end of the bargain to point to the immense power of God to get that done and praise Him for it.  

Two, it's an example of a big part of our prayer life that we don't fulfill.  The purpose for Bay West is to ultimately be an example of God working in the world, so if he works, and I don't tell, I'm not doing my job.  Isaiah 43:10, Isaiah tells us that God has called us to be God's "witnesses"...witnesses just tell what they saw.  If they don't tell it, then they aren't doing their part.  A big part of being a Christian is being the person who points out to everyone.."Hey, see what God did there..."  

One time in prayer with my wife's family, her older sister Daphne prayed about God answering what we were praying for, "God, we will be faithful to tell the story."  Be faithful to tell the story.

We put God on the spot, so to speak, not in making Him do something, but in putting the spotlight on what He does, and through doing so, people, like the nation of Israel, hear the story and are shown that "The Lord, He is God...yes, the Lord -- He is God!"

Don't miss out...this is the stuff of legend and adventure (and Bible stories) are made of...if you want to have the story to tell your grandkids, then pray big, pray specific, pray to leave no doubt, pray for God's glory, and be faithful to tell the story.

How did this happen?

Here we go again.  I let myself get fat….again.  I know you’ve never done that.  A few years ago, I lost a lot of weight, got back down to high school weight, ran some 5ks (set personal bests) and all that.   Then, I started to let the workouts slip, and began to eat a little more.  I’d get on the scale the next day and I really didn’t gain anything, so I let it go a little more.  I mean, I worked out all the time, so I should be good, right?  Well, 3 years later, here I am...almost back where I started. How did that happen?  Maybe if my belly had just bulged out when I ate the first Krispy Kreme, I would have stuck it out, but the effects of weight gain aren’t that user friendly...they sneak up on you.

Spiritual consequences are like the effects of weight gain.  God created the physical world to reflect what He’s trying to tell us spiritually.  We fool ourselves into believing that spiritual consequences don't exist.  When we “commit” a sin and the boulder doesn’t drop from the sky or there are no explosions, we think we got away with it or God wasn’t watching or maybe even, all this Christian stuff is a bunch of junk.  It could go on this way for years.  Then, one day, we look at our lives and go, “How did this happen?”  It might even be after we made some good changes in our life.  Sometimes, the greatest collapses in someone’s life happen immediately after a resurgence of good behavior.

Jesus even tells a story about a guy who was possessed by an unclean spirit.  The spirit leaves, and the guy takes the opportunity to sort of “clean up his life”.  Later, the unclean spirit comes back only to find everything all fixed.  The spirit gets 7 of his buddies, all worse than him, and they gang up to wreak havoc on the guy’s life.  Jesus closes the story by saying that “the last state of that person is worse than the first.”

Sometimes, we might think, like that guy, that we can just make some lifestyle changes...start going to church, maybe learn a Bible verse or two, by heart even.  We volunteer at a charity, get clean off the “hard” drugs, and we feel pretty good about ourselves, thinking we’ve done enough.  Then the slide begins and before we know it, we are worse off than we were before.  It’s like we painted the living room of the house to hide the cracks in the walls, but never addressed the foundation problems that caused them to begin with..

The reality is we can’t clean our lives up on our own...only God can do that.  Without turning our lives over to Him once and for all, we don’t begin to really see the long-lasting results we dream of and we just gain “the weight” all back.  It might show in different places, but the reality is when we get on the scale, we’ll see that it’s worse than when we started.  Then we are just left to look around and wonder “How did this happen?”